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So, wife and I were finally able to have a civil conversation about moving in the next years or 2. When we first got togthere it was, lets move asap for both of us ( I have 2 kids iwth a previos wife that keep me here), recently it was, me saying were need to move when Katie and Teddy are finished wiht HS, which is 6 years away, and she was ok with that, after jan 15th it was we need to move june 30th, 2014 and she was blah blah blah blah and I was, I'm going with or with out you and she was louder blah blah blah amd I beat my chest and said the decision is final, were are moving june 30th 2014. and we haven't talked about it first. So brought it up again today and asked her why she was against moving and she said she isn't, she just wants to make sure I have a job (shouldn't be a problem) and we have enought monies saved up so we can pay for the move and she can go a few months wiht out working. She is on board with SC, GA, TN, KY and possible Fl but not Tx, which I'm fine with. So, won't be buying a motorcycle, ammo, guns, beer, cigars, guitars etc till I move , I want $15-20K saved up, but, at least I can see the light. Ok, I'll be buying less of the small stuff, but no big ticket items.