So, in my intro thread, i mentioned at the bottom i was denied. I finally got the reasoning from the judge. I lack maturity and had poor judgement after a break up with a girlfriend.
The poor judgement is from her telling the cop I became a "raging" alcholic. Which is not true in any way. Also, when we broke up, she came into a bar, that I was at for a friends birthday and tried to start a fight with me, and ended up getting her self kicked out. I explained the situation to the officer and the events that happened that night. He was understanding but I think he failed to understand that this was just around 2 years ago.
During the relationship with the "Ex", there was never any restraining order, never any cops called, it was a fairly stable relationship. It just ended because I started hearing from several people that she was getting around with some other guys, i confronted it to her and she turned it right back around and accused me of doing the same, which now, maybe i wish i had! lol. But since after we broke up, I've avoided, well preferred to stay away from any contact with her. The cop only called her because he asked me for my previous relationships(i've only really had two that were somewhat serious) and i gave names just because all my references knew of them.
SOOO...my plan is to write a letter, provide 3 more references. 2 being co-workers(1 is my boss) whom i've worked with for 2 years and then my good friend who i've know for 13 years. I am planning to ask if they can re evaluate my application as the incidents they are basing their results off of are from 2 years ago.
In the past two years, at work, I have been promoted, I have had employee of the month twice, I have been a huge role to my programs success, and I just recently got accepted in to training to become a manager. My co-workers, worked with me also during the time I dated and broke up with this "ex" they are basing their facts off off. I also did attend the hand gun safety training with David Jenkins out in Canandaigua after I applied.
If that doesn't show maturity and better judgement, I am not sure what does.
Not to mention, I listed the one disorderly conduct I had(got caught going to the bath room in an alley in geneseo...everything was closed, had no where else to go. I wasnt about to just piss my pants.) I did the community service over paying a fine. I think that right there shows something. I bettered my community. Well, maybe its not better since I didnt provde the court with any money.
Well, if any one has any opinions on what else I can do besides re-applying every year, let me know.
The poor judgement is from her telling the cop I became a "raging" alcholic. Which is not true in any way. Also, when we broke up, she came into a bar, that I was at for a friends birthday and tried to start a fight with me, and ended up getting her self kicked out. I explained the situation to the officer and the events that happened that night. He was understanding but I think he failed to understand that this was just around 2 years ago.
During the relationship with the "Ex", there was never any restraining order, never any cops called, it was a fairly stable relationship. It just ended because I started hearing from several people that she was getting around with some other guys, i confronted it to her and she turned it right back around and accused me of doing the same, which now, maybe i wish i had! lol. But since after we broke up, I've avoided, well preferred to stay away from any contact with her. The cop only called her because he asked me for my previous relationships(i've only really had two that were somewhat serious) and i gave names just because all my references knew of them.
SOOO...my plan is to write a letter, provide 3 more references. 2 being co-workers(1 is my boss) whom i've worked with for 2 years and then my good friend who i've know for 13 years. I am planning to ask if they can re evaluate my application as the incidents they are basing their results off of are from 2 years ago.
In the past two years, at work, I have been promoted, I have had employee of the month twice, I have been a huge role to my programs success, and I just recently got accepted in to training to become a manager. My co-workers, worked with me also during the time I dated and broke up with this "ex" they are basing their facts off off. I also did attend the hand gun safety training with David Jenkins out in Canandaigua after I applied.
If that doesn't show maturity and better judgement, I am not sure what does.
Not to mention, I listed the one disorderly conduct I had(got caught going to the bath room in an alley in geneseo...everything was closed, had no where else to go. I wasnt about to just piss my pants.) I did the community service over paying a fine. I think that right there shows something. I bettered my community. Well, maybe its not better since I didnt provde the court with any money.
Well, if any one has any opinions on what else I can do besides re-applying every year, let me know.
